
It’s better to get to the point quickly that way you’re sure he’s listening. So they generally aren’t interested in long conversations like female friends. When a man gives an answer or response, it’s a cue that he’s no longer listening. When they hear a problem, they look for a fix/solution and move on. Men can’t talk for long because they are natural solution providers. During the wait, things you can do include dates to help you find out each other’s interests, family events, picnic, concert, movies, arcade, a few firsts, volunteering, board games, long walks, sexting(check literacy), and reading together. Learn how he reacts when you tell him you’ve got some problems, how he reacts under pressure, how he reacts when he’s told no, how he reacts to bad news. This is necessary to investigate the man before giving him sex. So when a man approaches you, he has a plan to sleep with you or find out what it takes to do so. Protect by taking care of you in every aspect (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)Įvery man needs their girl’s support, loyalty and cookie (sex).

Provide by giving you what you need and taking care of you financially.

Profess by declaring openly that you’re his girl and introducing you as his girl. The level he’s at in three areas, will determine his behaviour, availability and desire for commitment.Ī man that loves you will profess, provide and protect you. Anyway, while I was reading it this time around, I made notes, and I thought to share them on the blog for the ladies in the house. I was transferring files from my old laptop and stumbled upon the book and thought, why not? Though I’ve seen the movies Think Like a Man and Think Like a Man Too, I never went back to the book. I read it again last month, and it occurred to me that I didn’t have any business reading it then because the content makes so much sense to me now. The first time I read Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, was in 2012.
